When you step up to speak, your listeners are not just hearing your words. They are reading you. Within seconds, they decide whether they trust you and believe your message.
When I coach speakers, I often remind them that memorable communication begins long before the first word is spoken. It starts with how you show up. Whether you are delivering a keynote, presenting to investors, or leading a team meeting, your presence signals credibility. I tell my clients that strong communication is built on self-awareness and control: knowing how you are coming across and making deliberate choices about what you project.
Here are five traits I encourage every speaker to keep front-of-mind:
Confidence Confidence communicates credibility. When you stand grounded, speak at a steady pace, and use intentional pauses, you give your listeners the signal that they are in capable hands. Harvard professor Amy Cuddy, in her book Presence, reminds us that “our bodies change our minds, and our minds can change our behavior.” A quick Wonder Woman pose in the elevator, shoulders back and chin up, can shift your mindset and help you project assurance the moment you walk into the room.
Enthusiasm Energy is contagious. Listeners quickly sense when a speaker is genuinely invested in the topic. Enthusiasm shows that you care about sharing something of value, not just getting through your content. It brings warmth and vitality to your message, helping your listeners stay engaged and connected.
Bravery Every speaker feels some degree of nervousness. Bravery does not mean ignoring fear; it means choosing purpose over perfection. When you focus on the people you are there to serve rather than your own self-critique, you come across as composed and authentic. That authenticity builds trust faster than flawless delivery ever could.
Curiosity Curiosity transforms a presentation into a conversation. When you approach your message as something to explore with your listeners, you stay open, responsive, and real. It helps you listen as much as you speak, and that mutual exchange makes your delivery dynamic and genuine.
Empathy The most memorable speakers think like their listeners. They anticipate reactions, tailor examples, and speak in ways that make people feel seen and respected. Empathy ensures that your message lands not just in their minds but in their experience.
In the end, what makes a message memorable is not perfect polish, but presence. When you combine confidence, enthusiasm, bravery, curiosity, and empathy with self-awareness and control, you invite your listeners to connect not just with your ideas but with you.
Take a moment to reflect: Which of these traits comes naturally to you, and which could use a little more attention in your next talk? Building awareness around these five qualities will strengthen your impact and leave your listeners with something that lasts.



